Before you can pole at home, you obviously need a pole!
There are many pole choices (and a lot of "fake" poles), but you MUST have a professional grade pole. It must be STURDY and able to SUPPORT the load of all of the spins and tricks you will be doing.
XPole is what I personally use at home and recommend to all of my clients.
The XPERT Pro has the most advanced spinning & static mechanism in the world, X-LOCK. X-LOCK allows you to switch from static to spinning and back with just a flick of the wrist, no tools needed.